epiphany #3

"sometimes people don't want to fall in love.
because when you love someone, it's too late to set conditions.
you can't say 'i'll love you if you do this' or 'i'll love you if you change that'
because you can't help yourself;
and then you have to live with whoever it is you fall in love with, however they are
and just put up with the difficulties you've made for yourself
because true love has no conditions.

that's why it's so awful to fall in love."